Have some courtesy, have some sympathy, and some taste.

My nine year old daughter asked why she should be polite to someone who has been rude to her.
Courtesy is not a tip handed out to people who deserve it. Courtesy is not about being nice, it is not even about other people. Courtesy is a discipline with the goal of mental clarity under [...]

Candy apple gray.

It is a contemporary habit of thought to look for shades of gray. Nothing is ever simple, not even simple things.

April 4th: What More in the Name of Love?

Reverend Martin Luther King, Jr. was assassinated on April 4, 1968, on the balcony of the Lorraine Motel in Memphis, Tennessee. That balcony is pictured above.
(Simul-post)
One man come in the name of loveOne man come and goOne man come, he to justifyOne man to overthrow

In the name of loveWhat more in the [...]

From hell to paradise

The day before Thanksgiving I received an email. Here’s what it said.
OK, here are some depressing photos of Cuba. Take a look, share with others, and thank our parents or inlaws for getting the hell out of there in time!

Included in the note was a PowerPoint presentation of some sixty or so photos of [...]

A strange thing

Ned Batchelder, writing about raising an autistic child:
If Socrates had had an autistic child, I imagine he would have also said, “The fully-examined life is an exhausting pain in the ass”. I would love to not have to carefully orchestrate every aspect of Nat’s life. I would love for him to be able to walk [...]

Time and hard lessons are one kind of wisdom

I spoke to an old friend today, and the subject of my youngest daughter came up. She is five years old, and autistic. She does not speak, and seems to understand only a little of what is said to her. My friend asked why it is that I never express my emotions. It is a [...]